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From a one-sentence Tinder opener and a 71-minute 2:14 AM voice-note marathon to picking between Wildera and 7412 E Tintype Road. Switch the color themes above to match your photos, play with our custom tools below, or let Aura give you the guided tour.
How We Got Here: Two Perspectives
Wildera vs. 7412 E Tintype Road
You said: "i like both of them honestly — i like the bedrooms more in Wildera, but i like the common areas better in 7412 E Tintype Road." Let's customize our winning hybrid blueprint right here.
Wildera Plan
Bright white cabinetry, warm wood-look flooring, 4-stool island, and the bedroom layout we both love.
"i like the bedrooms more in this one"
7412 E Tintype Rd
Rich espresso dark cabinetry, granite island with pendant lighting, open-concept living flow.
"but i like the common areas better in this one"
Must-Have Home Features
Check off what matters most for our house so Brandon's realtor locks it in:
The 100-Candle Pamper Night Builder
Since I accidentally put my meeting in my "colander" for the wrong Friday—and because you work child care until 11:00 PM—you get to pre-build your exact Fountain Hills resort night for next week. Zero pressure at all, 100% spoiling you while you soak and I code on my laptop in the main room.
Slide to adjust candle ambiance (launches warm floating candle embers across the page!)
No Stranger Drivers. Ever.
"I will never leave you to travel alone any distance... I'm not going to expose you to a potential danger by putting you in a car with a stranger."
Interactive Thread Gadgets
Built straight from our voice notes, late-night essays, and your best comebacks.
"You Cuss Quite A Bit Sir"
Every time Brandon drops an F-bomb or sends a 3-hour text essay, tap the jar below. Each tap adds $5 to Trinity's Spoil & Car Fund!
Current Status: Ready to write you letters all day so you never misunderstand my heart.
Voice Memos, Book #2 & Burt Reynolds AI
From training AI for Google and building Adaptive AI to sending 5 voice memos at 2:14 AM and my 2nd book proof (KDP_BTHG_FINAL_PROOF.pdf).
Tap any chapter to view what it links to (Brothers, Mom, Best Friend Nick & My Story).
"Kindness Is Never A Weakness"
Between working child care & churches until 11 PM, pediatric psychology goals, and job hunting—press any button below whenever you need a boost.
"You have a genuine glow about you, like a beautiful light that I've never seen before that gives me peace."
Our "Not-A-Colander" Date & Goal Calendar
Click any day on the calendar to see what we have planned or lock in a new Date Night, 11 PM Childcare Shift Rescue, House/Car Milestone, or Goal Target!
Friday, Nov 20, 2026
Our Shared Horizon & Goals Tracker
Every date, progress bar, and checklist below is live-adjustable—including your car lease ending next month ("Can't drive a house lol"), our Meritage home, the VA contract, and the $2.4M Chapman BMW & PCR victories.
Upcoming Dates & Events (Live Adjustable)
Adjust any date below to match your child care, church, or study schedule.
Our Chronicle & Daily Notes
Pre-loaded with the real milestones from our thread—plus a form for you or Brandon to log new notes on any day.
Add a Dated Note or Memory
Send Brandon a Signal Right Now
Remember what I told you: "You can ask me anything... If you want my advice, I'll give it to you. If you don't want my advice, I won't give it to you. I'll never not have time for you."